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Family violence is the term used in the federal family law system and in most other states. In New South Wales, the criminal courts use domestic violence, and the orders are ADVOs. If you have been told there are family violence allegations against you, the NSW consequences will arrive under those names.
At Hugo Law Group, our Sydney lawyers act on the criminal side of these matters, defending charges and responding to ADVO applications. This page explains how that side interacts with parenting proceedings, because the two frequently run at once and each affects the other.
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Allegations of this kind can produce consequences in two separate systems at the same time, and the systems do not wait for each other.
What that usually means in practice:
The federal system and the NSW criminal system apply different tests to the same events, so an outcome in one does not determine the outcome in the other.
We act in the criminal charges and the ADVO. Where parenting proceedings are also on foot, we work alongside your family lawyer rather than running that case ourselves.
Our team can assist by:
1. Defending The Underlying Charge
The criminal allegation is the part with the highest standard of proof and the most serious direct consequences. It is also the part that carries the most weight if it is resolved in your favour.
2. Advising You Before Police Interviews
Anything said in a police interview can be used in the criminal matter and may become relevant elsewhere. We explain your rights and the consequences before you decide whether to participate.
3. Negotiating ADVO Conditions Around Children
Conditions restricting contact with children have immediate practical effect. We negotiate terms that respond to genuine concerns without cutting across arrangements that are working.
4. Coordinating With Your Family Lawyer
Positions taken in the criminal matter can affect the parenting case, and the reverse is also true. We keep the two aligned rather than letting them work against each other.
The two proceedings affect each other, and neither should be run in isolation.
The overlap is where most of the avoidable damage happens, usually because a step in one proceeding was taken without considering the other.
The criminal court asks whether the offence is proved beyond reasonable doubt. The family law court asks what arrangement is best for the children. An acquittal does not end the family law inquiry.
Family violence orders generally have to be disclosed in parenting proceedings. An ADVO will therefore be visible in that case whether or not any charge succeeds.
An ADVO condition and a parenting order can point in opposite directions. Section 68R of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) allows a state court making or varying a protection order to revive, vary, discharge or suspend an inconsistent parenting order, but it has to be raised deliberately.
Statements, recordings and admissions made in one proceeding can surface in the other. This is a common reason to get advice before responding to anything.
The federal definition is broader than most people expect and is not limited to physical violence.
| Issue | What It Means |
| Definition of family violence, s 4AB Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) | Violent, threatening or other behaviour that coerces or controls a family member, or causes them to be fearful. It extends well beyond physical assault |
| Relevance to parenting orders | Safety, including safety from family violence, is among the factors a court must consider when deciding what is in a child’s best interests. The s 60CC list was simplified by amendments applying from 6 May 2024 |
| Disclosure of orders | Existing family violence orders generally must be disclosed to the court in parenting proceedings, so an ADVO will be visible in that case |
| Interaction with state orders, s 68R Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) | A state court making or varying a protection order can revive, vary, discharge or suspend an inconsistent parenting order, where it has material that was not before the court that made the original order |
| Different standard of proof | Family law proceedings are decided on the balance of probabilities, not beyond reasonable doubt |
Hugo Law Group acts in the criminal charges and the ADVO. Parenting proceedings are conducted by family lawyers, and where you have one we work alongside them.
The practical point for readers is that resolving the criminal matter well does not automatically resolve the family law consequences, and neither should be dealt with as though the other did not exist.
Most of the damage in these matters comes from understandable reactions taken without advice.
Where an order is in place, contact intended to sort things out can itself be a criminal offence. Communication should go through lawyers.
Recordings made hoping to prove a point often create separate legal problems and are frequently inadmissible. Get advice before recording anything.
Conditions accepted quickly at court can restrict contact with children for months. They are negotiable before they are made, and much harder to change afterwards.
A criminal matter resolving in your favour does not end the family law inquiry, because the tests are different. Planning should account for that.
The order of these steps matters more than most people realise.
Before speaking to police, the other party, or anyone acting for them.
Even where you consider it unfair. A breach converts a civil order into a criminal charge.
Particularly around children, the family home and shared workplaces.
Positions taken in one can undermine the other if they are run separately.
This protects you and avoids creating the appearance of a breach.
The criminal side is where the most serious immediate consequences sit, and it needs to be run with the family law context in view.
Our team defends the charges and ADVOs that arise from family violence allegations.
We regularly appear in Sydney Local Courts, where these matters are decided.
We advise with the parenting proceedings in view, so the two do not work against each other.
Every case is different. We take the time to understand your situation and advise on your circumstances.
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They describe overlapping conduct but come from different systems. Family violence is the term used in federal family law and in several other states, while NSW criminal courts use domestic violence and make ADVOs. If you are facing consequences in NSW, they will arrive under the NSW terminology regardless of which word was used to describe the allegation.
No. Family law proceedings are decided on the balance of probabilities and ask a different question, namely what arrangement is best for the children. A criminal matter resolving in your favour is relevant and helpful, but it does not determine the parenting outcome. The two need to be planned together.
Section 68R of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) allows a state court making or varying a family violence order to revive, vary, discharge or suspend an inconsistent parenting order, where it has material that was not before the court that made the original order. It has to be raised deliberately rather than assumed. Where the two conflict and nothing is done, you can be exposed to breaching one by complying with the other.
Family violence orders generally must be disclosed to the court in parenting proceedings, so an ADVO will be visible in that case. This applies whether or not any criminal charge succeeds, and whether or not the order was consented to without admissions. It is a reason to take the conditions seriously at the time they are made.
The federal definition is broad and covers behaviour that coerces or controls a family member or causes them to be fearful, including conduct that is not physical. Financial control, threats and intimidation can fall within it. That breadth is why allegations sometimes arise from conduct a person did not consider violent at all.
Often, though not always, because the criminal matter carries the highest standard of proof and the most serious direct consequences. Timing decisions depend on what each proceeding requires and when. This is one of the main things to work out with both lawyers early rather than letting the two run on their own timetables.
Hugo Law Group provides family violence defence representation for clients throughout Sydney, including:
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If allegations have been made and parenting arrangements are already affected, the two proceedings will not wait for each other. What is said in one can be used in the other.
Our lawyers in Sydney defend the charges and ADVO applications that follow these allegations, and work alongside your family lawyer where parenting proceedings are on foot.
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